There is probably no adult man who would not like to discover his inner Casanova. As such, when you are out on a night with your buddies to have a couple of drinks, it is but natural to get into a situation when you will be tempted to use your skills in meeting a member of the opposite sex.
Check out the latest clubs and bars. This is precisely where women go to hand out with their girl friends, meet men and simply have a good time. This is a good a place as any to discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you – and practice your dating skills. If you feel like you have yet to master the art of reading the most subtle hints which will tell you if a woman is interested in you or not – then it is high time to harness your body language reading skills.
Basically, women are habitually giving out non-verbal cues to show their interest. If you receive ‘the look’ once you initially try to approach her, then you might not necessarily be using your finest dating techniques. Get rid of the pickup lines which you have been using for God-knows-how-long, and simply use a subtle but straightforward approach.
Afterwards, that is the time that you can sharpen even more your dating skills by putting on the charm. You wouldn’t want a hot woman walking the other direction once she sees you approaching. This is precisely the reason why it pays to learn all about how you can ‘listen’ to a woman’s body language.
Unleashing Your Casanova Techniques on Understanding her Body Language
So what are these so-called Casanova techniques that you need to employ if you would like to understand a woman’s body language? Basically, there are non-verbal cues that you can look for. Your goal should naturally be to learn how to look out for subtle clues which signals that a woman is interested. To give you an idea about what these subtle and not-so-subtle clues are, take a look at the following list.
Leaning over – “It’s okay for you to talk to me”. When a woman leans over you when she is trying to make a point or when listening to what you have to say – especially if it is not that crowded in the bar – it means that she is comfortable enough for you to prolong the conversation. This is the time that you can use your Casanova skills and charm the heck out of her.
Holding your gaze. Men usually need not-so-subtle invitations because they are really clueless when it comes to what women want. But when a woman who you just met deliberately holds your gaze for five seconds or so, that is a good sign that you have managed to capture her interest for real. She is basically speaking to you with her eyes and telling you that it is up to you to make the next move.
Combined body language and subtle hints – “You can invite me for a nightcap.” Some men are simply lucky in this department. If she flirts with you right back, initiates physical contact and reacts positively to your verbal and physical overtures, then that is a sign that she is thinking along the lines of tangling the sheets with you.
So what are you waiting for? If you feel that you have used enough of your Casanova charm and dating skills to get her to agree and go out with you or go home with you by the end of the night – there is absolutely no reason why you should say no to the invitation, is there? Just remember to pick up on her subtle hints, listen attentively to what her actions and words are trying to say – and you should be all set in mastering the art of reading a woman’s body language. After that, you can either ask her to go out with you sometime, or expect her to say yes to your invitation for a nightcap.
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