Do you know how to keep a woman happy? Here is some advice on relationships for men.
The first advice on relationships item I have for you is to always be yourself. Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show. But a confident man is the sexiest beast around. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.
Doing little things is the next thing you should do. From time to time this may mean offering to take her car for an oil change, or giving her a box of her favorite candies. Little things will add up in a relationship, most men think in terms of grand gestures, when it is the little things that add up.
This leads to the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate her. To take her for granted would not be good. You should let her know you value her.
Next and most obvious is, when you are with her, no looking at other woman. She will feel like you are comparing her to the woman you are looking at. The concept “the day I stop looking is the day I die” is not understood by woman. A woman’s biological drive is for monogamy in a relationship. Woman are looking to raise children and for a partner who they can do it with. It’s just their nature, they can’t help it. That’s how they are designed. So especially when she is around, minimize the ogling.
You should try to make her laugh. While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor. So, if you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.
The next piece of advice to a long term relationship is seeking common interest. You may have gotten together because of a hobby or an interest; however it helps when you take an interest in a passion of hers. If this means developing an appreciation for ballet, so be it. This will make you one in a million when she knows you care about her.
Once you have the girl, it might seem like you don’t need to try anymore – at least as far as personal grooming goes. It is true women are less sensitive to looks than men are, however they still want a man who makes an attempt. So, shave on the weekends. Stay up with the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don’t get lazy just because you have landed her. You may unland her just as easy.
She will need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of friends and family. After the first few weeks of passion are over a man must be part of her larger life. So, impress her parents and make an effort to get along with her girlfriends. To validate her relationship choices a woman relies on her social network. Make an effort.
Be considerate if her feelings, always. Women are not as stable as men. Some of this is hormonal. If you want to stay off her bad side, be sensitive to her moods.
For our final piece of advice on relationships be open to trying new things. In the beginning of the relationship, everything is new, from the kind of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. However, after a while things become routine. Shake things up, if you find your relationship has fallen into a slump. Do something new. Doing this will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.
Well, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating strong. Listen up guys, these things are common sense and the fact of the matter is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn’t pay attention to what I was doing. A book written by T ‘Dub’ Jackson called the “Magic of Making Up”. When I finished reading the book and began to apply the common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. A bonus was all my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and family has been smoother than ever.
About the author: T ‘Dub’ Jackson is on of the best writers since Hitchcock. See more of his writings at Magic of Making Up Website
