When you first meet a woman your goal is simple. You want to rise above all of the other men she meets every day. Rather than appear boring or average, you want to stand out in a memorable way. Most guys do it wrong by trying to wear something over-the-top or try to talk about strange subjects they think women would be intrigued by. This usually backfires on him.
Separating yourself from the average guy is more subtle then wearing a feather boa when you go out. That’s old school pickup artist tricks and it’s over. There are a lot of things I think you need to focus on when you first meet a woman but here is what I think is one of the biggest personality traits to express to a woman you just met:
1. Have a passion you are pursuing
Women like men with a passion. More than money or looks actually. Of course some might care about your wallet or want to date a male model, but most women would rather meet a man who has something he cares deeply about and is striving toward. It’s not so much success as it is ambition. In fact most women would admit that a man who has something more important than her is actually very attractive. This is a fact. No woman respects a man who would set aside his purpose or mission for a woman.
So when you meet a woman you need to express your interests to her with enthusiasm. Never be ashamed for what you believe or enjoy. Act as if you believe everyone is as interested in the topic as you are. People cannot help but respect someone who is 100% committed to an idea. Don’t make any excuses for your interests. If you do I call that value-seeking and no woman is attracted to a value-seeking man. The very enthusiasm you have for something is exactly what is going to bring an amazing woman into your life.
Bruce spent over 7 years studying attraction and applying what he learned in the real world. He now shows men from all ages and walks of life how to meet and date women. Sign up for his free crash-course attraction video or check out his Real World Attraction blog for more information.
