Comments on: Trying to be a good Christian while dating?

By: Ms.6

Ms.6 — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 02:11:35 +0000

I am not a Christian, I hope you don’t mind me answering your question.This is the perfect opportunity for you to really get to know each other. If you’re looking for a meaningful relationship having *** with him after 7 weeks isn’t gonna do it. There is a lot of things you can do with each other that don’t pertain to sex, you can get close without actually having *** also. He says he admires you and respects your decision. That’s good, now all you have to do is get to know him better to see if he will stick it out with you. But please note, this is only OK for you to hold out until marriage because you are under 28 years of age. Women generally get into their heated period around 28. If you’re still waiting until marriage after 28, I would be concerned for your health. I hope you get married before that. good luck to you and god bless.

By: Riverman

Riverman — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 05:37:44 +0000

Young one, saving your self for marrage should be for you and something you want, Not because you are Christian. You will find out the problems
being religiuos later in life.

By: Davis Wylde

Davis Wylde — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 03:17:40 +0000

You know, if you want to wait for *** because of the religion… that’s fine.
Just know that both your bodies are PROGRAMMED to want and in fact NEED *** as another form of intimacy.
I would imagine you could ********** each other or have oral *** and still keep your hymen.
I mean if you’re not doing anything to practice, you’re going to be TERRIBLE at this and deprive yourself and your future husband of enjoyable ***. It’s one of the few gifts of growing up.
At least use your mouth or hand. And, if I were you I’d have him breaking in your ****** with fingers regularly.

By: TANGERENEMAN

TANGERENEMAN — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 16:15:57 +0000

Keep Strong!!! Set your boundry and don’t go passed it!

By: simple serenity

simple serenity — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 08:33:11 +0000

Well i am very proud of you, good for you. As long as he respects your choice that will make it allot easier for you,you don’t have to worry about him pressuring you into anything.As far as what is to far, the bible says if you lust with your heart it is the same thing as the actual physical touch. That is really hard to answer,pray about it and ask God to reveal to you what is rite and what is wrong, he will. Please feel free to e-mail me if you just want to talk,or have questions,I don’t know everything but if I can help you in anyway I will,sometimes its just nice to have the support.God bless.

By: daemon747

daemon747 — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 16:15:01 +0000

Right and wrong is so black and white and this is a serious gray. Sticking to your guns is awesome. As far as how far you go if you pray on this for guidance and dig deep and ask what you feel is right and wrong you will discern to yourself what is right. Do it now though before you get caught up in the passion of a young love/lust relationship and best of luck to you.

By: akoypinoy

akoypinoy — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 21:37:26 +0000

I think the question you really want to ask is: What method to use for a safe Christian ***? Christians groups differ widely on their attitude towards extramarital ***. Join a more liberal one.

By: Spiderman

Spiderman — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 14:44:21 +0000

Ouzibillahi Mina Shytan Al Rajeem
Bismillah Al Rahman Al Raheem
Ya Habibi Allah
Ya Al Abdul Wakeel ya Muhammed SAW
Ya Sadiq ya Abrahim A.s.
Ya Sadiq ya Musa A.s.
Ya Sadiq ya Isa A.s.
Ala kil Al Ambyiate Salam! Takbeer Allah Akbar!

Will you give it up already those of the book are protected by the book, you know i am human being and I error but I just go back the lab and make some more web slinging string, sew my tights back up, oh of course I do that what you think I am some character on TV, surely you don’t know the real me. I only know your a fake and a fraud and I don’t care what you post because my Lord the Merciful one with Allah SWT behind his name keeps bringing me out of our fire and smoke and tells me, you can repent and you can show peace always and the good ones oh they will shine brighter than any of your light bulbs in the house. So please keep posting so we can really know what the heck you really are IBLIS!

Salam Alaikum Wu RahmatAllah Wu Barakathu Shoo be jabtak hatoo, ya Allah Masad Ya Habibii Rasool Allah Ya Isa, A.s. Yaya Ya Wakeel, ya Musa Ya Habibi, Ya Allah! Ya Allah shine baby shine! I told you once and I will tell you again, yeeeeeeeeee hhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

Source(s):

Al Quran Al Karim the Truthful Words of Allah SWT The Lord The only True King of the final day!
Al Tranlation of the Quran
And many verified parts of the faith before till Adam our Father and he had sons yes they had daughter too and thats us wake up!

By: Karenita

Karenita — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 17:23:34 +0000

I think you’re doing just fine. He respects you for who you are and he more than likely doesn’t find the relationship boring. Just keep doing what you’re doing. God Bless You

By: allen t

allen t — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 15:46:07 +0000

I hope I’m misunderstanding your question.
There isn’t anymore physically to do and keep your vow. So I guess time in prayer together and fellowship with Christians that you both know and like. Doesn’t have to just be at church you know. Perhaps a Christian project to help others. Lots to do to avoid boredom.
I’ve always thought you really know you are comfortable together when you can be in a room for an extended time and not have any thing to say to each other. No reaching out to please just being with. Also if you can **** and not worry about it. Good luck.